Showing posts with label rant. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rant. Show all posts

Saturday, August 22, 2015

One Direction (and other): Why I Need Feminism

   Just this week, One Direction finally released the music video for their latest hit, "Drag Me Down". To say the entire thing was creative is an understatement; it includes robots, the boys running after a camera at rather awkward angles, and the ultimate point in which our favorite boy band is shot into space. Though I could write up an entire post about my love for the extravaganza that was the "Drag Me Down" video, there's actually a pretty big elephant in the room that comes with the attention the band is receiving, mainly from a male standpoint. Though most reactions towards DMD were positive and excited, there of course, had to be a chorus of "girls only listen to their music because they're hot" and though these things usually pop up with anything, there's an actual problem within saying this. Let's completely take everything we know about One Direction/ any biases against them and start from the beginning. "Drag Me Down" currently holds the title of #1 in 80 countries. EIGHTY. And this isn't even the first time something like this has happened- about all of their previous singles have hit first place on the iTunes charts without preorders. Going off of that, the British band have broken the Vevo records multiple times along with playing sold out or close to sold out shows every single night in the most well known venues on their world tour. So why don't they gain more respect? Why does a large portion of people still claim females who enjoy bands like One Direction are only there for the looks of the members? And no, it's actually not the performer's faults comments like this are usually put across, it's the demographic. One Direction's main audience is extremely versatile. Their listeners go from eight year old girls to college students. Mainly all female. This group of people is incredibly impressive- it's tough to land the pre-teen population already but also having young through older teens, and young adults (think recent college graduates) calling themselves directioners is almost considered impossible. A band that appeals to such drastically different age groups is usually something celebrated. But with their almost 97% fanbase of girls, One Direction is thought of as talentless because females can't possibly actually enjoy music, they must have a crush on one of the members to latch onto a band like this. Yes, it is very much true that most of their audience is attracted towards the boys but that's completely understandable; in a video done by Lacy Green, she describes "fangirling" or having a crush on a famous person as something completely normal and actually scientific in the minds of girls growing up (which fits most of 1D's fans). Another great point to bring up is these ladies' source of income. Being young, these directioners are mostly working minimum wage jobs or relying completely on their parents. They aren't giving up their paycheck or birthday present for the album or tickets to see four talentless boys. They enjoy the music and yes, the members but this behavior isn't driven from the pure attraction of Harry Styles. It's a love for the content this band creates and the way it makes them feel.
   Think of it as this: if One Direction's fanbase was mainly all male, their reputation and music would be taken much more seriously. The idea that the bands and artists that have a co-ed or mostly male audience are more respectable and talented is ridiculous. The statement, "girls only like One Direction because of their looks", also puts across the idea that all women are boy obsessed and can't appreciate something unless they find attractive value within the artist. When you turn it on it's head, the situation is actually pretty funny because of how large a double standard it is. For this year's Victoria's Secret fashion show, more men tuned in live than woman to watch supermodels walk across a runway in lingerie. Though Taylor Swift gave a pretty killer performance, it is easily argued that this male audience was there for the looks of the models. So why are guys allowed to literally just watch conventionally gorgeous women walk across a stage whereas girls can't enjoy a band with attractive members?
   It's sad to watch a band that has one of the most powerful fanbases and has put an influence on the demographic of teenagers (one of the hardest to hit ever) can't be taken seriously because directioners are mainly all female. It's even sadder that these fans are constantly having to prove themselves to guys (and even some women) for their taste in music because of being seen as "boy crazy". Though this post only covered One Direction specifically because of my own liking and experiences, this can be applied to any artist within the industry- these double standards hitting females are ridiculous.

 

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Slut.

Wow as if you didn't need yet another feminist rant from Ann here is yet another on a topic that not only I but other people on How Fitting but many many other blogs have discussed: The word slut. Before I begin on this word I figured a clear definition would be helpful:
A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
b. A woman prostitute.
2. A slovenly woman; a slattern.
As I mentioned, this post is from the point of view of a feminist (me) and people have argued with me that this word is not a misogynistic word and that it does not make you less of a feminist if you use it for feminists come in all different types with beliefs that vary for each person. My rebuttal is that yes, not every feminist has the same beliefs and views but this word is not only in my opinion, "anti-feminist" but bullying. Why don't you call me worthless or stupid or ugly while you're at it? Telling someone that they are a slut or whore is not just misogynistic but an abuse word that no one should have to ever go through being called. Being a teenage girl in middle school, of course I have dealt with other girls talking behind my back to their friends, labeling me as bitch, slut, whore, you name it. If I ever did use these words before, I would never ever want to use them again after experiencing that name being thrown at me. Trust me, it hurts to be called a slut and really hit me hard. The word stuck with me and that day was not the last of the times I have caught people talking about how big a slut I am. I am not telling you this story for everyone reading this post to feel bad for me. I am sharing this experience to those who have ever called someone such a name. These words hurt. They hurt worse than anything else I have ever been called because after about the third time I was labeled as a slut, I began to really question myself. Was I really? 
Look, I realize that it is tempting and rather hard to not thinkof the girl wearing the short shorts or revealing tank top as a skank who just wants to show all the guys but am I only one who finds that terrible? Recently, one of the girls at my school wrote a long thing on social network to the "school sluts" on how everyone hated them and they need to cover themselves up. This really hurt me because I really felt as though she was directing this towards me and think about it: how shitty must it be to be told that the entire school body hates me? And why should I have to stand the abuse from one of my peers on what to wear? I don't mean to get angry, but why would it ever be OK to judge someone on what they wear? If I want to walk around in my booty shorts and tight fitting tank top because I finally like my body and want to show it off, that does not give you the right to ever tell me what and what not to wear or else everyone will hate me. 
One of my favorite movies of all time, Easy A, really talks about these problems. Though it is a comedy about a girl who pretends to have done various things with the guys at her school, the entire movie is based around the whole perspective of a "slut". Olive is called many names and bullied by her peers they even at one point, have a rally to have her expelled for being such a "whore". Her life falls apart just because she did some fake (though no one knows that it is) things with a couple guys. 
What about "Mean Girls"? Tina Fay's point is very valid. If girls continue to call one another sluts, it is going to make it OK for everyone else to call us that.
-Ann
*All photos taken from tumblr